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Green Cropped Sweater: Urban Renewal by Urban Outfitters. High-waisted black jeans: Levi's. Faux Fur Stole: taken from the collar of an old coat I no longer wear but you can also use a faux fur stole like the ones I posted in Shop My Closet. Metalli…

Green Cropped Sweater: Urban Renewal by Urban Outfitters. High-waisted black jeans: Levi's. Faux Fur Stole: taken from the collar of an old coat I no longer wear but you can also use a faux fur stole like the ones I posted in Shop My Closet. Metallic Silver Leather Gloves: ASOS. Hawthorne Boots: Jeffrey Campbell. "On The Prowl" Sunnies: Quay Australia. (This post was sponsored by Quay Australia.) Photos by Kate Christofano. 

Where Was Crazy Rich Asians When I Was A Teenager?

November 28, 2017 in Personal, Outfits

Nobody ever tells stories about attractive, young, modern, fashionable, and progressive-thinking Asians. It's always tragedy, martial arts revenge stories and "immigrant porn". So my initial impression after reading Crazy Rich Asians was that it was a story that had nothing to do with being Asian. But at the same time, it had everything to do with being Asian because every single character is Asian. And if you believe everything the media tells you, then all the countries in Asia are some sad, podunk, poor, provincial place where the people are just dying to move to the US. We don't think of places like Singapore which is a very wealthy nation full of beautiful, educated and fashionable people. I think a big myth about immigration, especially Asian immigration, is that all of our parents were just dying to come here but in reality, most of our parents and grandparents would have been perfectly happy to stay with their families if things were different in their home countries, politically and economically. So this book shows that there are countries in Asia that aren't impoverished, sad nations like Americans love to believe.

If you haven't yet read it, Crazy Rich Asians is a fish-out-of-water story with Rachel Chu being the fish. She is an American-born Chinese (ABC) professor at NYU who travels with her fiancé, Nick Young, to Singapore to attend a wedding. What she doesn't realize, is that Nick is the most wealthy, eligible bachelor on the island and his family is the at the top of the social hierarchy there. We move thru the story and watch the action unfold thru Rachel's eyes and think, "it is absolutely ridiculous how much money these people have."

Something else that struck me as different was that none of the characters are framed by whiteness, which is unusual if you read a lot of Asian American literature. Side note: usually the Asian girl is dating a white guy or is absolutely tortured with some identity issues because every single person around her is white -- like even if they reject whiteness, it's a self-conscious and angsty process. It gets exhausting after a while so this was a welcome departure. In a discussion with Jessica Rhee of Plan A Magazine, she sums up the story as "a celebration of hedonism and self-discovery that isn't tied to whiteness." Jessica also said, "Asian American literature [typically] reads like an undiagnosed anxiety disorder. But actually BEING Asian is intensely fun. When it comes time to write about it we turn into these depressed anxious social isolationists." I wonder if Kevin Kwan noticed this too because his book is pretty much the complete opposite of typical Asian American literature. 

Seems like a few other people also took notice because it's going to be a major Hollywood movie that comes out in August of 2018. 

The first time I heard it was being made into a movie was because of several casting controversies: One major controversy, for example, was the one involving actress Jamie Chung. Chung claimed that she didn't get offered a part in the movie because she's Korean and the casting directors specified that they wanted Chinese actors. Then she called the casting of the biracial actor Henry Golding, "bullshit." In the broader sense, I get what she is upset about even though I didn't agree. They're getting all super specific about casting different ethnicities, but if this was any other Hollywood movie, white actors can pretty much play anyone they want, even characters of completely different races. Or, it can be a movie cast with all people of color and as the lone white person, they can still be the hero of the story. 

In terms of media representation, this film is moving in a new direction. All we've had are period pieces, martial arts revenge films, and crime sagas and Asians being cast in white movies as model minorities, hypersexualized mannequins, nerdy sidekicks, or poor immigrant workers. The Jade Pendant was terrible. The Joy Luck Club was terrible. We can only have one Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon. Gook is an excellent film but it has no chance of going mainstream. The Raid was fantastic but we can't keep making that movie over and over again. This is a new story with new stereotypes. The thing is, without a lot of different kinds of characters, then the stereotypes don't go away and we end up in the same cycle of having to watch the same Asian stories over and over. This allows for more opportunities. So start with Crazy Rich Asians, which is an easy sell and even easier to consume. 

I see this movie as a win for Asian women especially. While there are few roles for Asian men onscreen, they are usually substantial and leading roles. And some Asian male actors have reached icon status: Bruce Lee, Jackie Chan, and Donnie Yen, for example. If you went to college in the US and lived in the dorms, chances are, a lot of guys had posters of Bruce Lee on their walls. He is just a universal icon of masculinity, heroism and chivalry. Ip Man, OldBoy, Rush Hour -- all those movie franchises are centered around an Asian man. Tons of quality movies with Asian male leads are excellent. I would say Asian women might have more in numerical quality in terns of supporting roles in mainstream films, but the guys definitely have icon status. I cannot name a single Asian female who has the icon status of Bruce Lee or Jackie Chan. Gong Li and Kris Aquino are icons but only to Asian audiences. Mainstream audiences do not know them. They barely even know who the female lead in this movie is (it's Constance Wu from Fresh Off The Boat). As far as Michelle Yeoh, who will be starring as Nick's mother and was even in Tomorrow Never Dies and the newest Star Trek series, she's famous but she doesn't have the kind of fame that Jackie Chan or Bruce Lee have. 

I’ve heard the criticism that Crazy Rich Asians isn’t the “right kind of Asian movie to make when we’ve waited so long since the Joy Luck Club.” Or that it might introduce a new kind of Yellow Peril to the larger narrative, politically and economically speaking. But I think that’s the whole point. It’s accomplishing a lot by doing less. One movie shouldn’t be expected to tackle every single hot button topic at once. It can accomplish a lot more by tackling one thing really well.

So who's coming with me to see it this summer? 

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Since 2020 Is An Election Year, Here Are Some Things To Remember...
Since 2020 Is An Election Year, Here Are Some Things To Remember...

Politics was once framed as if it might be removed from the stuff of our daily lives, like it was some sort of fringe interest. Declaring a lack of interest in politics was the norm, especially among young people. The last election showed us that every part of our daily lives is political. In November, there is a strong possibility that Donald Trump will be re-elected, that we will have our first woman president if Elizabeth Warren is elected or that we will have our most left-leaning, progressive president ever if Bernie Sanders wins. Whatever happens, no outcome will go unchallenged. Get ready.

You Guys, It's MEGXIT: Fuck the Royal Family
You Guys, It's MEGXIT: Fuck the Royal Family

A couple of years ago, I was totally BASHED online for blogging that Prince Harry and Princess Meghan should run far, far away from the Royal Family, especially after seeing what they did to Princess Diana…I’m happy to say that that blog post has aged quite well.

2019 Was An Embarrassment of Riches For Movies
2019 Was An Embarrassment of Riches For Movies

Today is the day that the ballots for the Oscars went out. We haven’t had this good of a year for movies…ever. Critics have long declared 1999 the best year ever for movies, and for a long time I agreed. Until now.

My Favorite Filipino Christmas (Pasko) Traditions
My Favorite Filipino Christmas (Pasko) Traditions

With the vast majority of Filipinos being Catholic, the most prominent holiday celebrated in the Philippines is Christmas (“Pasko” in Tagalog).

The Best Asian American Books of 2019
The Best Asian American Books of 2019

My favorite books by Asian American authors in 2019, in no particular order. I probably read about sixty books this year. Something that I’ve been thinking about a lot is that for all our fascination with technology, we’ve forgotten how transformative a simple book can be. 

If We're In Late Stage Capitalism, Does That Mean the End of Capitalism Is Near?
If We're In Late Stage Capitalism, Does That Mean the End of Capitalism Is Near?

At this point, the phrase is everywhere. Late capitalism, in its current usage, is meant to describe the stage of capitalism where things get so bad that a revolution happens. The term was popularized by a Marxist theorist and activist named Ernest Mandel in the mid-twentieth century. I think it sounds almost ominous because a “late” period implies that we are at the end of something.

Where to Find Me in December
Where to Find Me in December

After a relaxing Friendsgiving weekend bonding with my kasamas, it’s time to get back to organizing! Here are a few things coming up this month. Please check back regularly as this page will be updated as more events are confirmed.

Capitalism Sucks
Capitalism Sucks

Our free market is run by selfish, untrustworthy sociopaths. Corruption has become the norm. In the last 30 years, our checks and balances have been badly eroded. And it was only 25 years ago that the world celebrated the “triumph” of American capitalism. Is this a coincidence? No.

Only Colonizers Celebrate Thanksgiving: Saying NO THANKS!
Only Colonizers Celebrate Thanksgiving: Saying NO THANKS!

I may not be a politician nor do I have a lot of power. But I will use my voice to humbly say that looking back on the twentieth century, I find nationalism and exceptionalism really creepy. Next week, our country will be celebrating one of the worst holidays of all. To Native Americans, Thanksgiving is a day of mourning because it is a reminder that in return for their help, they were repaid with the loss of their land and destruction of their people.

Decolonize Your Bookshelves with Randy Ribay
Decolonize Your Bookshelves with Randy Ribay

Yesterday was my third Decolonize Your Bookshelves event and once again, I felt rejuvenated by doing my part to bring joy into the art of resistance. At this event, we celebrated the work of Randy Ribay, author of Patron Saints of Nothing, and a 2019 National Book Awards finalist. Randy is also a convener for Malaya Movement and based in the San Francisco Bay Area. His work--which is exhilarating, harrowing, uplifting and redemptive--is a powerful testament to so many of our experiences, and it is deeply resonant for me personally.

Public Libraries Are Socialism In Action
Public Libraries Are Socialism In Action

The public library system is basically socialism at its best. It’s one of the few environments that doesn’t judge anyone or take advantage of anyone. It doesn’t try to sell anything and it can’t be bought. It offers people dignity and nobility.

The Diversity and Inclusion Industry is Complete Bullshit
The Diversity and Inclusion Industry is Complete Bullshit

Can you really train people to be more accepting of diversity after making them sit through a 2-hour seminar? No. Let's be realistic. It's too conceptual. And simply outlawing bias doesn't make it go away. Never mind that almost every single training facilitator will do everything they can to avoid actually saying the word “racism".”

Why Joining An MLM Will Ruin Your Life
Why Joining An MLM Will Ruin Your Life

Everyday, people get sucked into the lure of MLMs (“multi-level marketing” or “network marketing”) and I can’t stress enough the need to stay far, far away from them. I understand the need for flexibility, especially if you are a full-time student or are raising young children. Believe me, I also understand getting a job that allows you to create your own schedule and work remotely takes Hunger Games level competition.