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The Charm City Night Market

about 16 hours ago

Last night’s Charm City Night Market Festival was so epic. It was an honor to be part of such a momentous and symbolic part of history for the Asian American and Pacific Islander community in Baltimore. Looking out from the stage, it was like a sea of people.

Tribal Instincts: The Case Against Assimilation

about a week ago

The question isn't, why is tribalism so attractive to us? That seems obvious based on the human desire to connect and belong. The question is more, what makes modern American society so unappealing?

September Events: Baltimore Book Festival and The Charm City Night Market

about 2 weeks ago

Some of my favorite things about my blog and the online activism I do are the opportunities that come along for me to advocate for the Asian American community in real life. This month, I'M HOSTING TWO EXCITING EVENTS in the Baltimore area.

Why Is Everyone So Pissed Off About Cultural Appropriation?

about 4 weeks ago

Cultural appropriation is a topic that never goes away and one where the goalposts are constantly moving. And when people talk about it, it turns into a furious debate almost immediately.

Crazy Rich Asians Be Like...

about a month ago

Crazy Rich Asians. No matter where you stand on its cultural significance, there are droves of Asian American people—like me—who are beyond excited about the film. Do I feel like I’m seeing myself represented in a fun way for the first time? Yep. Is this a big deal to me? Hell yes it is.

Representation Matters And It's Not Just About Hollywood

about a month ago

For people of color, especially Asian Americans, representation shouldn't just be about Hollywood, television, or pop music. It starts way earlier and much closer to home. It starts before your kids even begin kindergarten.

The Problem With The Body Positivity Movement

about 2 months ago

The body positivity and the no makeup movements, with their empowerment slogans such as, "you are beautiful just the way you are," are still equating happiness and self-worth with beauty. That's the real issue here.

My Thoughts On All The Online Harassment I Get

about 2 months ago

A lot of online bullying happens because people want to boost their reputation inside of their own ingroup. They love raking in those likes and those upvotes. Women, people of color and activists get it so much worse.

I'm Taking Questions For Ask Me Anything Again!

about 2 months ago

Do you have a question that you want to ask me? I rarely do product reviews or blog about blogging or write about fashion and beauty, even though this is a fashion blog!

Why Are There So Few Asian Beach Reads?

about 3 months ago

I have been asked to curate and host a discussion panel of Asian American authors, writers and poets for CityLit Project at the Baltimore Book Festival on September 29th and 30th! The theme I have chosen for this year's panel is the dearth of lighthearted, fun and fluffy reads in Asian American literature. Basically, there are hardly any Asian beach reads. Are we only appreciated if we write tragic, weighty stories?

The Miseducation of the Filipino People

about 3 months ago

Filipinos, especially Filipino-Americans, should be very aware of the miseducation of the Philippines that has affected our upbringing and even the way we are raising the next generation.

A Filipino-American Look at Netflix's First Filipino TV Series

about 4 months ago

Brillante Mendoza's TV series "Amo" is the first Filipino-made television show to be picked up by Netflix. Though often compared to other shows about drug wars such as "Narcos" and "The Wire," there is a lot that would be unfamiliar to or lost on most American viewers.

I Was On Buzzfeed News

about 4 months ago

The Crazy Rich Asians trailer drew a huge reaction online, especially on Twitter. Instead of criticizing the movie, I decided to post a thread listing a bunch of other Asian-centered books written by Asian authors as alternatives. The thread was picked up by Buzzfeed and they brought me on their live morning show to talk about it.

I'm Back From My Blogging Vacation And I've Missed You...

about 5 months ago

Let's talk about what I've been up to since I took a three week break from blogging.

Two Asian American Role Models For National Girl Crush Day

about 5 months ago

April 27th is National Girl Crush Day. The first time National Girl Crush Day appeared on my radar was in 2015 when I saw a bunch of people tweeting about it and nominating women and girls who were inspirations to them. I want to nominate and talk about two women I've been following closely this past year: Ruby Ibarra and Ellen Pao.

A Brief History of Red Lipstick

about 6 months ago

I've been wearing a lot of red lately. Sometimes it's been a pop of red lipstick or red nails. Sometimes it's my entire outfit, from my lipstick all the way to my bag. No other color represents love, strength and passion the way red does. It is the color of extremes. Our prehistoric ancestors saw red as the color of fire and blood – energy and primal life forces – and most of red’s symbolism today arises from its powerful associations in the past.

The Killing Of The Creative Class: Was I Wrong About The Gig Economy?

about 6 months ago

I am very skeptical of the freeing benefits of the internet economy now. In theory, it sounds great. It can be and has been done. But it's so rare when it does. The few success stories create such a false sense of hope.

David Chang's Ugly Delicious: Anything You Can Do, We Can Do Better?

about 6 months ago

Famed Momofuku chef David Chang's new eight episode series for Netflix, Ugly Delicious, had me really thinking about anti-assimilation (a stance I believe all Asian Americans should take) and what it means to be pro-Asian.

My Final Oscar 2018 Predictions And Some Random Thoughts About The Nominees

about 7 months ago

Sunday, March 4th is my Super Bowl: The Academy Awards. You already know from my previous blog post that I'm rooting for Three Billboards Outside Ebbing, Missouri for Best Picture but do you want to know what my other picks are?

Six Reasons To Check Out The New Bowlero in Timonium

about 7 months ago

I covered the Bowlero Grand Opening Party over the weekend and had a blast! I love how Bowlero is such a fresh take on the traditional bowling alley. It's very youthful and has a casino-like atmosphere. Think of a bowling alley but for the Instagram and Snapchat crowd.

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Last night was so epic! Had the best time emceeing with my cohost @atomicgoofball. The @charmcitynightmarket festival will forever be a game changer in Baltimore. I can’t believe how many people came out to support the amazing musicians, artists and food vendors. I never expected a crowd as big as we got!! It was a sea of people all night long.
#charmcitynightmarket
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Only one more day!
The very first Charm City Night Market Festival is tomorrow at 200 Park (right along Lexington Avenue) from 4-11 pm.
I’ll be hosting the main stage all night with @atomicgoofball!! Bring the whole family.
Tons of Asian-focused food, live music, performances, art, and fun for everyone!
Free admission.
#charmcitynightmarket
@charmcitynightmarket
@thechinatowncollective
@downtownbaltimore
@thebmorecreatives
@promoandarts
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Warm September nights.
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Prepping for the next two weekends which are going to be so lit. 🔥
Saturday, Sept 22: Charm City Night Market/Chinatown Collective festival in Baltimore. I’m emceeing the main stage!
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Saturday, Sept 29: Baltimore Book Festival. I’m hosting a discussion panel about the importance of Asian American authors. I’ll be on the CityLit Stage from 1-2:30 pm. 📚
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I refuse to acknowledge the winter coats and sweaters in all the stores now.
Photo credit @k.christo11
Pink tee @converse
Blue skinny pants @asos @asos_us
Hair accessories @goodyhair
Sunnies @quayaustralia
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What movies are you looking forward to this fall? I’m looking forward to:
A Simple Favor
Predator
White Boy Rick
Venom
A Star Is Born
Mowgli
Bohemian Rhapsody
Girl in the Spiders Room
Creed II
Photo credit: @vkimphoto
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Lost in the supermarket (technically, Target). Have a great holiday weekend, everyone.
Btw, I had a great time at the @thundervegas show at @livecasinohotel! Check out my IG stories!
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96 degrees in the shade is what I live for.
Nails are Harlem Shake by @impressmanicure.
Earrings @freepeople
Bodysuit @freepeople
#aestheticdistance #fpme #impressnails #impressmanicure

Can’t believe it’s almost the end of summer! Next month I’m emceeing the Chinatown Collective festival in Baltimore on Sept 22nd with @atomicgoofball and hosting a discussion panel about Asian American contemporary fiction in the post-Crazy Rich Asians era at the Baltimore Book Festival on Sept 29 with @thenerdsofcolor.
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@thechinatowncollective
@charmcitynightmarket
@bmorebookfest
@thebmorecreatives
@bmorearts

That time we got kicked out of a mall parking lot. The homie @garrett_taira.
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All summer, we've been in the 'bu, '68 Chevy with nothin' to do.
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What on earth did I do before @ctilburymakeup took over the beauty industry? I feel like such a golden goddess with her new summer glow collection! I’m wearing her Lip Lustre in Candy Glow, which is a sheer, sparkly fuschia, Film Star Bronze and Glow for contour and Bar of Gold highlighter.
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#charlottetilbury
#charlottetilburymakeup

I saw Crazy Rich Asians and it was everything I wanted it to be: fun, beautiful and lighthearted. I found myself holding back tears bc of how moved I was. Michelle Yeoh and Awkwafina were brilliant. I won't give away anything else because I know ppl are planning on seeing it this weekend.
#aestheticdistance #crazyrichasians

How awkward is it when you click on someone’s IG live story...and you’re the only one in there? 😬
White bikini @amazon #amazoninfluencer
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Continuing my pastel theme all the way thru summer. By the way, if you’re on Twitter, follow me. I’ve been wasting a ton of time on there these past few months — my handle is aesthdistance1.
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RT @aesthdistance1: Last night was so epic! I can't believe the sea of people that came out for the very first Charm City Night Market… https://t.co/zDIIvfT0dG
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Last night was so epic! I can't believe the sea of people that came out for the very first Charm City Night Market… https://t.co/zDIIvfT0dG
about 19 hours ago
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RT @baltimoresun: Did you know that Baltimore once had a vibrant Chinatown? A new festival this weekend hopes to celebrate and revive… https://t.co/vO4oFdarRe
about 2 days ago
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TONIGHT. I’m hosting the very first Charm City Night Market Festival in downtown Baltimore’s historic Chinatown. B… https://t.co/1nh32OkOdE
about 2 days ago
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RT @aesthdistance1: It's an honor to be involved in such an important event for the Asian American community in Baltimore. Big ups to K… https://t.co/GHikOZMVtc
about 2 days ago
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RT @midnightsunblog: Decades ago, Baltimore's Chinatown was bustling with activity. That's no longer the case — but now a group of young… https://t.co/KEmn7bRc1g
about 2 days ago
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It's an honor to be involved in such an important event for the Asian American community in Baltimore. Big ups to K… https://t.co/GHikOZMVtc
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Written by Moroccan author Leïla Slimani, the first chapter is disturbing and graphic. Although a crime was committ… https://t.co/GkBuHeC6Vi
about 2 days ago
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Cynicism shouldn't be mistaken for wisdom. But it so often is. "Oh wait, you're against things? You must be smart… https://t.co/FjC57l3xLe
about 3 days ago
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Film Twitter has been eulogizing MoviePass for the past few months. When it was introduced, it seemed to be just ta… https://t.co/dLF4OcjEGb
about 3 days ago