Light blue, sheer, organza bomber jacket by StyleWe. Available here or by clicking on the photo. Gold sequined leggings by Nasty Gal. White cropped tee by Forever 21. Black triangle bra by Urban Outfitters. Sunnies are Desi Perkins High Key for… — *Light blue, sheer, organza bomber jacket by StyleWe. Available here or by clicking on the photo.* Gold sequined leggings by Nasty Gal. White cropped tee by Forever 21. Black triangle bra by Urban Outfitters. Sunnies are Desi Perkins High Key for Quay Australia. YSL earrings, thrifted. Love necklace, thrifted. Black platform boots by Jeffrey Campbell for Nasty Gal.

Ask Me Anything

January 16, 2017 in Personal, Outfits, Ask Me Anything

My Tumblr has an Ask Me Anything section. Here are the most common things I get asked on there. If you have a question, feel free to ask in the comments below or go check out my Tumblr page!

Black slouchy beret: Free People. Sheer black turtleneck: Free People. Black denim bell bottoms: Free People. Gucci bag: Vintage. Platform boots: Jeffrey Campbell for Urban Outfitters. Sunnies: Quay Australia "On The Prowl." Orange Scottie Belt: Top… — Black slouchy beret: Free People. Sheer black turtleneck: Free People. Black denim bell bottoms: Free People. Gucci bag: Vintage. Platform boots: Jeffrey Campbell for Urban Outfitters. Sunnies: Quay Australia "On The Prowl." Orange Scottie Belt: Topshop.

You Can Leave Your Hat On

January 15, 2017 in Outfits

Berets are back. Bell bottoms are back (as I predicted last year). Turtlenecks are back. Combine all three and you've got a banger of a fit.

Stockholm Sweden Beanie. Ivy Park Hoodie. Both items from Topshop and available in my online shop. Vintage fox fur coat from Milk & Ice Vintage. Moschino logo earrings from Poshmark. Sunglasses by Quay Australia.

One Way Or Another: My Obsession With Poshmark

January 13, 2017 in Personal, Outfits

Thanks to my friend, Sadira, I am now obsessed with Poshmark.

Red velvet pantsuit by ASOS. Platform boots by Jeffrey Campbell for Nasty Gal. On The Prowl sunnies by Quay Austrailia. Black lace bralette by Urban Outfitters. Ring by Bauble Bar. Earrings by Bebe. New haircut and highlights by Sarah Vitek for Edge… — Red velvet pantsuit by ASOS. Platform boots by Jeffrey Campbell for Nasty Gal. On The Prowl sunnies by Quay Austrailia. Black lace bralette by Urban Outfitters. Ring by Bauble Bar. Earrings by Bebe. New haircut and highlights by Sarah Vitek for Edge Evolution Salon and Spa.

Pantsuit Nation

December 26, 2016 in Outfits

Red velvet and pantsuits are ode Gucci.

*Model and stylist: Kate Christofano. To shop this post, please click on each photo to be taken to a link to each item. All clothing by www.Tobi.com.*

Everyday I Write The Book: Aesthetic Distance x Tobi

December 13, 2016 in Photoshoots

All about that athleisure trend for the holiday season. Model Kate Castofano also styled this shoot and shows us how it's done.

Models: Sara Crooks and Felicia Flaherty for CIMA Talent and Click Models. Stylist: Kate Castofano. Hair: Sarah Vitek for Edge Evolution Salon and Spa. Makeup: Courtney McCormick. Clothing provided by: Brightside Boutique, StyleWe and Urban Outfitte… — Models: Sara Crooks and Felicia Flaherty for CIMA Talent and Click Models. Stylist: Kate Castofano. Hair: Sarah Vitek for Edge Evolution Salon and Spa. Makeup: Courtney McCormick. Clothing provided by: Brightside Boutique, StyleWe and Urban Outfitters.

Who Loves The Sun

November 13, 2016 in Photoshoots

So I've been looking at a lot of Andy Warhol polaroids and watching 80s movies lately.

*Model: Kareen Taylor. MUA/Hair: Samantha Goldstein. Shot at Oleg Ti's NYC studio, Unit 505.*

Eye Know

November 07, 2016 in Photoshoots

Simple portraits. Complex lighting. Strong woman.

*Model: Kareen Taylor. MUA/Hair: Samantha Goldstein. Shot at Oleg Ti's studio, Unit 505, in NYC.*

Don't Stop Til You Get Enough

November 07, 2016 in Photoshoots

I'm super obsessed with disco and the 70s and wanted to create a nightclub-like atmosphere with my new photos.

*Model/MUA: Markie Meghan. Clothing by Nasty Gal and Forever 21. Shoes by Jeffrey Campbell and Sam Edelman.*

Don't Fear The Reaper

October 26, 2016 in Photoshoots

Hey, hey, hey! Happy Halloween, witches. I teamed up with popular YouTube beauty blogger, Markie Meghan for this skeleton photoshoot.

*Model: Nirvana Kirton. Necklace: Nasty Gal. Leotard: model's own. Fur coats: Eliza's own.*

Love to Love You, Baby

October 24, 2016 in Photoshoots

As much as I love shooting fashion, I'll never get tired of shooting portraits.

*Model: Daniel Biltmore. Clothing by Carhartt, Adidas, Nike and Starter.*

Keep Rising Til The Sky Knows Your Name

October 23, 2016 in Photoshoots

And I heard 'em say, nothin' ever promised tomorrow today.

*Model: Margaret Wolfe. Jewelry Designer/Stylist: Rachel Mulherin. Makeup: Chrissy Forbes. Hair: Katlynn Amenta. All clothing from ASOS and Missguided.*

Aesthetic Distance x Rachel Mulherin

October 16, 2016 in Photoshoots

Images from the lookbook that I shot for jewelry designer, Rachel Mulherin.

Model: Sandra Reider. Agency: Red Model Management. Creative Directors: Julia Morris, Marius Troy. Stylist: Julia Morris. Stylist Assistant: Kiki Camp. Hair: Isaac Davidson for Wigbar. MUA: Marthe Hesvick for Maybelline NYC. Designer:… — Model: Sandra Reider. Agency: Red Model Management. Creative Directors: Julia Morris, Marius Troy. Stylist: Julia Morris. Stylist Assistant: Kiki Camp. Hair: Isaac Davidson for Wigbar. MUA: Marthe Hesvick for Maybelline NYC. Designer: Allan Virgo for Michael Kors. Producer: The Breed.

Green Room

October 13, 2016 in Photoshoots

Model: Sandra Reider. Agency: Red Model Management NYC. Produced by The Breed.

Aesthetic Distance x Brightside Boutique. Models: Brittany North, Sara Crooks, Markie Meghan. MUAs: Brittany North, Markie Meghan. Sara's hair: Sarah Vitek for Edge Evolution Salon and Spa. Intern: Kate Castofano.

Naked Lunch

October 09, 2016 in Photoshoots

Aesthetic Distance x Brightside Boutique

Daniel Biltmore

October 04, 2016 in Photoshoots

I've been shooting a lot of promo pics for music industry folks this month. Here is Daniel Biltmore.

Models: Sara Crooks, Markie Meghan, Megan Larkin, Courtney Elizabeth. Photography and creative direction by me. Concept and styling by Megan Larkin. Makeup by Courtney McCormick and Markie Meghan. Hair by Sarah Vitek.

The Rocky Horror Picture Show

October 01, 2016 in Photoshoots

It's not Halloween unless your girl squad gets together and coordinates costumes. And if you're like us, you love to go all out with the makeup and the theatrics.

Model: Delaney Coyle. Agency: Red Model Management NYC. Creative Directors: Julia Morris and Marius Troy. Designer: Wear the Paint. Hair: Isaac Davidson for Wigbar. MUA: Dana Arcidy. Styling: Julia Morris. Stylist Assis… — Model: Delaney Coyle. Agency: Red Model Management NYC. Creative Directors: Julia Morris and Marius Troy. Designer: Wear the Paint. Hair: Isaac Davidson for Wigbar. MUA: Dana Arcidy. Styling: Julia Morris. Stylist Assist: Kiki Camp. Producer: The Breed.

PhaseOne XF/IQ3-100

September 30, 2016 in Photoshoots

I had the honor of testing out the new PhaseOne XF/IQ3-100 system last weekend in NYC and now I am in love with shooting medium format.

Drama Club

September 27, 2016 in Photoshoots

Model Sandra Reider for Red Model Management NYC.

Shot on location at the Boro Hotel in NYC. Model: Olivia for Red Model Management - RED NYC. Stylist: Julia Morris. Stylist Assistant: Kiki Camp. Hair: Isaac Davidson for Wigbar. MUA: Dana Arcidy. Creative Directors: Julia Morris and Marius Troy. De… — Shot on location at the Boro Hotel in NYC. Model: Olivia for Red Model Management - RED NYC. Stylist: Julia Morris. Stylist Assistant: Kiki Camp. Hair: Isaac Davidson for Wigbar. MUA: Dana Arcidy. Creative Directors: Julia Morris and Marius Troy. Designer: Allan Virgo (Michael Kors). Produced by The Breed.

The Last Days of Disco

September 26, 2016 in Photoshoots

A Studio 54-inspired shoot with Olivia of Red Model Management - RED MODELS NYC. Shot on location at the Boro Hotel.

Misty Mountain Hop

September 21, 2016 in Photoshoots

Over the hills, where the spirits lie.

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I usually do a write up of the events I’ve organized or hosted and my most-read articles at the end of the year. This was an unusual year (obviously, there is no need to go into it here) so I didn’t bother. Instead I want to highlight a project of mine that I am particularly proud of — it’s my new podcast show, Unverified Accounts, that I cohost with my frequent collaborators, Chris Jesu Lee and Filip Guo. If you're a big movie/TV/book buff, have leftist sympathies, but can't stand 'wokeness' dumbing down our culture, then we're the podcast for you. So far in our 25 episodes, we’ve covered a range of contentious topics.

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This was an um…unusual year. Movie theaters shut down, every single film festival went virtual, all movies were released directly to streaming services, and I ended up watching more new releases since the summer of Moviepass. This year I watched 459 movies.

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This year I read mostly non-fiction. Mostly politics too. I learned more about the dangers of American-style democracy and liberalism. I also learned a lot about the CIA and how just much it has harmed the rest of the world. The books that uncovered the truth about the CIA were my favorites of the year because they allowed me to zoom out and truly see the American experiment for what it really is.

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You Will Never Convince Me To Vote Democrat Ever Again

Aug 16, 2020

The Democrat party is not on your side. It has never been on your side. I was just as angry when Donald Trump was voted into office back in 2016 but I’ve learned a lot since then. My politics were much more binary back then and I was naive enough to believe that though both political parties were bad, the Democrats were at least a lesser evil than the Republicans. I WAS WRONG. Ever since I was in college, I always believed that voting was one of the most important things you could do. I don’t believe that anymore. In fact, I’m not voting this year. Especially after finding out that Joe Biden chose Kamala Harris as his running mate.

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I'm Sick Of The Pandemic Too...Because It's Killing Us

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My 89 year old Auntie Milagros Romero Alonzo died of covid last Friday. She was alone in the ICU because nobody was allowed to visit her. Her nurse held up a phone so that we could all say goodbye to her via Facetime. Now we are planning a Zoom funeral. Take this pandemic seriously.

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Jun 16, 2020

A Personal Post About Our 16 Weeks (And Counting) in Quarantine

Jun 16, 2020

This is a personal post about what my family and I have been up to in the 15 weeks (and counting) that we’ve been in quarantine. This blog has gotten more and more political in the past few years and I have no plans of stopping anytime soon. I know I haven’t written as much since the pandemic started but the truth is that it’s been hard to concentrate. The news cycle moves so fast that it’s hard to formulate any kind of commentary more than a tweet or a blurb in Instagram stories.

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May 25, 2020

Just Because You're Sick of the Pandemic Doesn't Mean It's Over

May 25, 2020

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Mar 15, 2020

Shut It All Down

Mar 15, 2020

Allowing people to work from home and shutting down schools isn’t stopping people from going out and accelerating the spread of coronavirus. Warmly inviting people to practice voluntary social distancing isn’t working either. It’s time to take more drastic measures. SHUT IT ALL DOWN. STAY HOME. The only things that should remain open are grocery stores, banks, gas stations, pharmacies and hospitals.

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Mar 12, 2020

What We Need To Think About During The Coronavirus Lockdown

Mar 12, 2020

Social distancing. Lockdown. If you’re like thousands — no, millions — of people around the world, you are most likely at home, avoiding physical contact with the outside world, in the hopes of escaping the coronavirus. This pandemic is bringing to light several things at once.

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Feb 24, 2020

Bernie or Bust

Feb 24, 2020

A Bernie vs. Trump election is a centrist’s nightmare. Fifty years ago, Bernie Sanders’ policies were actually mainstream. That he and Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez (AOC) and their supporters are portrayed as "extreme" shows how insanely far-right U.S. politics are now. He and AOC shouldn't be seen as radical at all. They should be the center. Democrats have pushed the center so far to the right that people like Obama, Hilary, and Warren are considered left of center, rather than the conservatives that they really are.

Feb 24, 2020

Feb 2, 2020

On Landmark Movies, the Oscars and the Uselessness of Media Representation

Feb 2, 2020

I’m often not a fan of a first-timer winning Best Actor or Best Actress without a proven track record of great work. Too often, they go on to be nothing more than one-hit wonders. The fact that the Academy has frequently awarded one hit wonders that have no lasting impact is what makes people think of the awards as culturally irrelevant.

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Jan 24, 2020

Cancel Culture Does Exist...And It's Wrong

Jan 24, 2020

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Jan 21, 2020

Why Net Neutrality Is Something We Should All Be Concerned About

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Net neutrality is a topic that we all should be concerned about, including those without a computer or internet access at home. Almost everything is done online these days so people without internet access are already at a huge disadvantage. Restricting or blocking the internet will affect every single one of us, which is why the debate over net neutrality is something to be closely followed.

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Jan 20, 2020

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Politics was once framed as if it might be removed from the stuff of our daily lives, like it was some sort of fringe interest. Declaring a lack of interest in politics was the norm, especially among young people. The last election showed us that every part of our daily lives is political. In November, there is a strong possibility that Donald Trump will be re-elected, that we will have our first woman president if Elizabeth Warren is elected or that we will have our most left-leaning, progressive president ever if Bernie Sanders wins. Whatever happens, no outcome will go unchallenged. Get ready.

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Jan 8, 2020

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2019 Was An Embarrassment of Riches For Movies

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Today is the day that the ballots for the Oscars went out. We haven’t had this good of a year for movies…ever. Critics have long declared 1999 the best year ever for movies, and for a long time I agreed. Until now.

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My Favorite Filipino Christmas (Pasko) Traditions

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The Best Asian American Books of 2019

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At this point, the phrase is everywhere. Late capitalism, in its current usage, is meant to describe the stage of capitalism where things get so bad that a revolution happens. The term was popularized by a Marxist theorist and activist named Ernest Mandel in the mid-twentieth century. I think it sounds almost ominous because a “late” period implies that we are at the end of something.

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Where to Find Me in December

Dec 4, 2019

After a relaxing Friendsgiving weekend bonding with my kasamas, it’s time to get back to organizing! Here are a few things coming up this month. Please check back regularly as this page will be updated as more events are confirmed.

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Nov 30, 2019

Capitalism Sucks

Nov 30, 2019

Our free market is run by selfish, untrustworthy sociopaths. Corruption has become the norm. In the last 30 years, our checks and balances have been badly eroded. And it was only 25 years ago that the world celebrated the “triumph” of American capitalism. Is this a coincidence? No.

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Only Colonizers Celebrate Thanksgiving: Saying NO THANKS!

Nov 26, 2019

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The Diversity and Inclusion Industry is Complete Bullshit

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Can you really train people to be more accepting of diversity after making them sit through a 2-hour seminar? No. Let's be realistic. It's too conceptual. And simply outlawing bias doesn't make it go away. Never mind that almost every single training facilitator will do everything they can to avoid actually saying the word “racism".”

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